When Someone Pushes You

Episode (4): 

On this vibe, if someone push me away, I promise you. You won’t find me where you left me.

My heart’s big but not big enough to keep people who only loved me when it was convenient 

I am not and never will be a second option. Am not someone you can come back to for another opportunity to disrespect and disregard me when I am not again a convenience. I am not someone you can come back to when it appears safe.  If you walk away STAY GONE! Because while you’re out there confused. I’m out here healing. And continuing my grind and growing.

I used to wait for you and I used to hope about you but now I match effort, I protect my Peace.

And never again will chase you nor anyone else. Who treats me like I am replaceable. So, if you push me away don’t be surprised when you come back and find a version of me that doesn’t need nor want you anymore. Because eventually you learn losing people who don’t value you isn’t a loss. It’s Freedom!  Here’s the deal, I don’t hate you I’m just DONE!I am finish fighting for a spot in the life of someone. Who couldn’t even fight to keep me. 

Story Solution

To be pushed aside and learn to never welcome someone back means you have experienced a profound and deliberate rejection that has resulted in a permanent severance of the relationship. 

This isn't a simple misunderstanding but a deep, conclusive break that you accept as final. 

The resolution: Learning to never welcome them back. This is the critical shift from simply being hurt to moving on definitively. It indicates that you have processed the event and come to a final conclusion for your own mental health and well-being. Acceptance of the reality is that you stop fighting for a connection that the other person has made clear they do not want. Prioritizing your mental health and recognize that you’re more important than clinging to a toxic bad relationship. You accept their choice that was deliberately done and you do not need or want a life with someone who do not want you in their life. Your self-respect dictates that you walk away. In ending you break the toxic pattern of trying to win someone back who doesn't value your presence. Now your self-discovery and self-respect is powerful. It is the journey from a painful rejection to the realization that your own value and emotional safety come first. It means you have learned not to invest your time and energy in someone who has demonstrated that you are not a priority. Today that’s just fine. You move on thinking to God, saying, Thanks God